There is something so profound
on this Earth that governs the flow of generations one after the other. And
this profound thing that controls the flow of generation is through the debated
text of the topic of sex. Sexuality is a natural instinct that is imprinted
into the genes of all living creatures on the face of the Earth. Getting
attracted to the opposite sex has been one of the key factors behind the
generation of new species through reproduction. There are different biological
theories connected to the systems of the living creatures for producing the
offspring, but the whole thing that governs this act is the sex.
Let us not be ashamed in
talking about it and not be apprehensive about confronting something so
natural. We, human beings, have active sexual instincts throughout the life;
not being seasonal, considering from the very day we discover our sexuality in
pre-adulthood days. Though unoubtely in the recent times, this instinct has
found overpowering the cultural advancement we have gained over the past.
The governing act of sexuality
is only sexuality for all the other animals, but we human beings have
classified it and have restricted forms of sexuality like those of pre-marital
sexuality and extra-marital sexuality. The main concern behind introducing this
restriction could be explained as unlike all other animals we live in a
civilized society with strict norms of morality and cultural obligations, made
by humans.
The society demands for a
mature relationship and also the mutual respect amongst the members of the
society and not to be pointed out with the raised eye-brows. Also, this is due
to the fact of being accepted as a dignified individual in the society and not
merely seen as sex object/toy for fulfilling the need of lust.
Going by the biological
progress, sex at any stage is not wrong; but the idea of pre-marital sex may
harm the mental development of adults in several forms. Premarital sexual
experiences, many a times, leads to the misconception that sex is to be enjoyed
at whatever ways possible. Forced premarital lovemaking will lead to mental
depression and dilemma.
Another danger is possible
exchange of diseases; as premarital partners may not be aware of diseases that
spread through intercourse. Getting pregnant through premarital sex is
another disaster. Emotional imbalances and guilt feeling could be the
result of most premarital sexual affairs.
Even the modern societies of the present day don't
appreciate premarital lovemaking for several reasons. Love-making is no more
considered an outflow of the natural sexual instincts among human beings. We
see it as a necessary obligation to share the romance between married couples and
also as a medium to fulfill the social responsibility of giving birth to the
next generation.
Sexuality is not an instrument
of enjoying lustful pleasure for human beings, at least. In premarital sex,
many a times, immature human beings explore the sexuality, just out of
curiosity, and might be are unaware of the consequences. Society has forbid
premarital sex from the very outlook that adolescence is the time to form
oneself as mature and responsible human being and not at all a time to
procreate.
Premarital sex is not approved
by any modern society, yet, stories of adolescent fathers and mothers come out
largely, especially from the highly civilized European nations. Modern
lifestyle has opened multiple opportunities for boys and girls to interact closely
and deeply in public and private. They have ample chances to experiment the
sexuality which they witness through internet and Televisions.
Laws, rules and regulations
that we have made ourselves, work primarily to threaten people, these can never
make them to not do something, and instead increases the urges level to take
the step without knowing if it would do any favour to them. Effective ways to
curb the growth and flow of pre-marital sex could be brought through awareness
schemes, better health measures and guides, safe sexual methods, emotional and
mental control over the hormones, staying stable in the minds.
Awareness of healthy sexuality
is not at all the knowledge of safe sexuality. Training the members in a
society, children in school, poor people in the villages, programmes for girls
and women in the rural backgrounds, is essential to guide them to mingle with
opposite sex in a mature way. Inspire them with mutual respect between man and
woman. From the very childhood itself a baby should learn to accept people as
men and women, the equal partners of life on earth; not as objects to fulfill
lusty wishes and ambitions.
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